Tuesday, May 10, 2011

Avoid Suspicion

All sisters, one of the essential nature of evil shun the life of a true Muslim is like the ugly nature of thought. The nature of this suspicion comes from attitudes like prejudice. Prejudiced attitudes are divided into two well prejudices and ugly prejudices. In the Quran, Surah al-Hujurat verse 12, Allah says about the prejudice, which means: "O ye who believe! Avoid most of suspicion (so you do not think thoughts that are prohibited) for verily some suspicion is a sin. "
 
When looking at things, and men tend menafsirnya of a negative angle. So, to avoid the ugly thought, we need to make a checking or asking about things before making assumptions. Allah reminds us in the Quran, al-Hujurat letter, paragraph 6, which means: "O you who believe, when come to the wicked (those who do not practice the teachings of Islam) that with any news, then carefully investigated (true or not ). "
 
Therefore, when we think about other people, look at from the perspective of positive and good. For example, when her sisters to see her younger sister's teacher to help lift things, think from a positive angle. That is, he was sorry for the teacher or he is indeed hardworking and helpful to others. Do not be quick or suspicious view of the negative aspects of such thinking is to be ingratiating brother's teacher or others.
 
That way, the sisters will always be close friendship with my friends. Siblings are also able to train themselves away from suspicious behavior and thus to avoid persecution. This is because the prejudice expressed in other bad behavior of slander and gossip.
 
Slander is saying something that is not true for others. It stems from prejudice. Sin of slander is also quite large and is condemned by Islam. Defamation can decide friendship, social relations and thus impair the mengucar-kacirkan community and our country. While gossiping about other people say something that is not related to his liking, although the matter is true.
 
In the Quran, Surah al-Hujurat, verse 12, Allah forbid this despicable behavior. Which means: "... and not one of you on each other. Do any of you like to eat meat of his dead brother? (If this is the cursing), then of course you loathe it. "
 
He likened this gossip as eating a rotten corpse. We certainly would stay away from and feel disgust towards the act of eating the corpse. So should we also feel disgusted with what gossip.
 
Therefore, to avoid getting stuck with slander and gossip, jauilah ugly suspect behavior. Clean our hearts and minds of all the bad thoughts. People are happy and successful in life will not think badly of others. He always saw himself and what is around him with positive thoughts and good thought, though he may not be as great, rich or beautiful people.

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